{"id":23300,"date":"2020-05-29T08:18:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-29T15:18:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/futuresharks.com\/?p=23300"},"modified":"2022-03-25T09:20:34","modified_gmt":"2022-03-25T16:20:34","slug":"tony-robbins-interview","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/futuresharks.com\/tony-robbins-interview\/","title":{"rendered":"Tony Robbins Interview &#8211; How to Achieve Your Highest Potential"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Tony Robbins<\/strong> explains how all humans share the same 6 humans needs, and how to change your mindset to become truly successful, fulfilled and happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watch this interview with Tony Robbins and Tom Biyelou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"flex-video widescreen youtube\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"After This You&#039;ll Change How You Do Everything! - Tony Robbins\" width=\"1170\" height=\"658\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CVP1CwEBz_Y?feature=oembed&#038;showinfo=0&#038;rel=0&#038;modestbranding=1&#038;iv_load_policy=3&#038;playsinline=1&#038;enablejsapi=1\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Here&#8217;s the transcript <strong>of the Tony Robbins Interview:<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In people\u2019s lives\u2026 there\u2019s only maybe half dozen, 7-8 categories that really matter. Most people, they major in minor things. They focus on stuff that doesn\u2019t matter.&nbsp;They know more about this celebrity going in and out of rehab than they do about their own personal development. But I look at it and say if you look at your body, where you are starting without that everything else is out the door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>You don\u2019t wanna be the richest man in the graveyard.&nbsp;That\u2019s not going to do it.&nbsp;If there is energy, if there is vitality, if there is strength&nbsp;it\u2019s gonna show up in your relationship,&nbsp;it\u2019s gonna show up in your business,&nbsp;it\u2019s gonna show up in your life.&nbsp;That\u2019s something you got to master.&nbsp;You can\u2019t dabble.&nbsp;It\u2019s too important.&nbsp;Emotions are everything.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I mean&nbsp;you got a ton of money, everybody loves you&nbsp;and your primary emotions are pissed off and frustrated, then your life is pissed off and frustrated.&nbsp;Doesn\u2019t matter if you got a billion dollars,&nbsp;or a million people loving you,&nbsp;your life is not great.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Relationships.&nbsp;Intimate relationships especially.&nbsp;It\u2019s where the most juice in life comes from, It\u2019s where the most pain comes for most people, It\u2019s worth mastering instead of dabbling.&nbsp;Really looking at what you\u2019re gonna do with your time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And mastering your time,&nbsp;instead of\u2026 having a checklist and crossing all off&nbsp;you can mistake movement for achievement.&nbsp;I want to squeeze that time what matters,&nbsp;that creates value for me and for everyone I care about and love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What about your career&nbsp;or your business&nbsp;and the mastery of that, instead of dabbling\u2026&nbsp;most businesses are dabblers.&nbsp;That\u2019s why they don\u2019t make it.&nbsp;96% you know\u2026 in a 10 year period of time, 4% make it.&nbsp;That doesn\u2019t even mean they\u2019re profitable.&nbsp;And that does not mean they\u2019re enjoying themselves.&nbsp;Or they\u2019re getting anybody else to do good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Really mastering money&nbsp;so that it\u2019s not a question in your life.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>You can do and be and give and share as much as you want&nbsp;and you\u2019re not stressed about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>I don\u2019t tell people what to believe spiritually but I believe that&nbsp;ultimately, whatever you believe you gotta live it&nbsp;and it should lead to growing and giving.<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re growing, you feel alive, if you\u2019re giving, you feel 10 times more alive..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If someone can celebrate and give in that spiritual state\u2026 So you need those years I look at mastery&nbsp;business for sure,&nbsp;but it\u2019s the areas of life that matter most, and most of where we spend our time doesn\u2019t make people feel fulfilled&nbsp;that\u2019s why the average person is not fit and healthy,&nbsp;the average person is not in a relationship where they have tremendous passion\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m not a dummy, I\u2019m not a positive thinker,&nbsp;I know the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>The average person is not successful in business.&nbsp;The average person is not earning what they want to earn.<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>But you know what, very few people have those things,&nbsp;but a few do.&nbsp;A few&nbsp;are happy, fulfilled, spiritually alive,&nbsp;financially strong,&nbsp;their business is growing,&nbsp;they have passionate love affairs&nbsp;and I\u2019m obsessed with finding the few who do and finding out&nbsp;what they do different and teaching it to everybody.&nbsp;Learning it for myself and teaching everybody else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone\u2019s going to measure themselves differently,&nbsp;because everyone values things differently.&nbsp;Some people value&nbsp;success&nbsp;or significance,&nbsp;some people value love more, some people value just basic levels of certainty,&nbsp;so when I look at the specific metrics&nbsp;I really look at metrics of&nbsp;what are the things that need to be measured to know if your life is gonna work or not&nbsp;so I look at it as\u2026&nbsp;our whole lives are guided moment to moment by the state we\u2019re in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Learning how to change your state,&nbsp;not bullshit, not fake,&nbsp;but to go from pissed off, frustrated, freaked out&nbsp;to back in your center,&nbsp;or creative,&nbsp;or determined,&nbsp;or something that\u2019s gonna move you forward&nbsp;that\u2019s going to create a better quality of life for you and others.&nbsp;That\u2019s a critical skillset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So moment to moment our life is controlled by our states.&nbsp;If you\u2019re in an angry state you\u2019re going to respond differently than if you\u2019re feeling playful.&nbsp;What controls those states longterm is your model of the world.&nbsp;Your world view.&nbsp;And I look at that as having as a metric, 3 things that I look at:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I look to see first what are the targets you\u2019re after.&nbsp;The target is\u2026&nbsp;everyone has different goals and dreams and desires\u2026&nbsp;but as I travelled around the world in 100 countries I stared going\u2026&nbsp;Holy shit! I\u2019m seeing the same problems.&nbsp;Whats underneath it\u2026&nbsp;I began to see that there are these same six human needs that we all have&nbsp;The same needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>We all have the need for certainty,&nbsp;that we can avoid pain and we can have some pleasure, some comfort, we all need uncertainty.&nbsp;We need variety, or we feel dead inside.&nbsp;If you\u2019re totally certain, you\u2019re bored.&nbsp;If you have total variety you freak out.&nbsp;And it\u2019s not a balance.&nbsp;It\u2019s learning which of these you need more as a person?&nbsp;Everyone has a different set of values in that area.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>The need for significance,&nbsp;to feel unique, special, important\u2026&nbsp;the need to feel love,&nbsp;the need to grow,&nbsp;and the need to contribute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people value certainty at the top of their list.&nbsp;That\u2019s the center of their target.&nbsp;I don\u2019t want to do anything unless I know it\u2019s going to work.&nbsp;I don\u2019t want to do anything unless it\u2019s the same,&nbsp;if you change anything they freak out.&nbsp;If certainty is the n0.1 thing on your list&nbsp;everyone has the same needs, but if it\u2019s no.1&nbsp;I know how your life is going to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can predict the direction of your life&nbsp;and therefore the destination to some extent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re driven by love first,&nbsp;you want certainty too, but love is higher,&nbsp;you\u2019re gonna behave very differently&nbsp;than if you\u2019re driven by significance \u2013 I have to be the one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I looked to see which of those needs are the top 2 on your list&nbsp;because they control your life.&nbsp;The 2 that most people have 90% of the planet<br>of all these needs, which one do you really focus on most day to day?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everybody wants love.&nbsp;What do you focus on?&nbsp;Most people focus on&nbsp;being significant \u2013 we live in a Facebook world,&nbsp;where people fake their life,&nbsp;put new filters, make it look different than it really is,&nbsp;tell stories that are totally full of it to make themselves look good\u2026&nbsp;because we life in this kind of false world where significance is more important than love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">And it separates us.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>And the other one that we see most often is certainty.&nbsp;People want to be certain before they can do something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You couldn\u2019t have started a business like you have if you were absolutely certain before you started, you could never build a business with that.&nbsp;You could never build a great relationship because if it\u2019s based on certainty then&nbsp;everybody gotta stay the same and never change,&nbsp;which means you\u2019re never going to grow,&nbsp;which means you\u2019re going to be miserable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So my metrics are,&nbsp;I want to find out what\u2019s driving you.&nbsp;And I want to see, is it healthy or unhealthy\u2026&nbsp;you can have two people be driven by significance though,&nbsp;and do it with a different set of rules.&nbsp;That\u2019s the second piece I measure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The beliefs and rules and how to fulfill that target.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So Osama Bin Laden,&nbsp;certainly driven,&nbsp;love driven,&nbsp;contribution driven,&nbsp;significance driven, not hard to figure out&nbsp;on a 0 to 10 he was a 10 for significance.&nbsp;He was like the 22nd child,&nbsp;most people don\u2019t know that.&nbsp;Totally insignificant,&nbsp;not skilled,&nbsp;took his dad\u2019s money,&nbsp;went over to Afghanistan,&nbsp;and suddenly because he had money he became significant.&nbsp;And he started\u2026 he wasn\u2019t even part of that movement at that stage.&nbsp;It shaped him.&nbsp;So what does he do?&nbsp;He\u2019s going to figure out his model of the world is&nbsp;I\u2019m significant if I destroy you.&nbsp;<em>Right<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On that same day of 9\/11 there were men and women&nbsp;on the fire and police department&nbsp;that were also all driven by significance&nbsp;and contribution&nbsp;and they went into that building knowing they\u2019re likely going to die to save a stranger.&nbsp;Both people driven to have a significant life,&nbsp;one is by taking life,&nbsp;one is by giving their own life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So once you understand the metrics, using your language,&nbsp;of whats driving you&nbsp;and then the rules or beliefs of what does it take for you to feel loved,&nbsp;is different for everybody.&nbsp;What does it take for you to feel certain?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people need 1 million dollars&nbsp;some people just need to trust God.&nbsp;I wanna be more clear about something:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">An extraordinary life is life on your terms.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>And there\u2019s two parts: Part one to have an extraordinary life&nbsp;is mastering the skill&nbsp;of the science of achievement.&nbsp;How do I take what I envision and make it real?&nbsp;And how will I do that quicker, faster, better, easier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The ability to manifest&nbsp;what you come up with and make it real&nbsp;like you\u2019ve done with your company,&nbsp;that\u2019s a skillset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve spent an unbelievable amount of time&nbsp;helping people do it faster, quicker, better,&nbsp;showing them the shortcuts,&nbsp;teaching the strategies,&nbsp;modelling what works,&nbsp;you can save yourself a decade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But,&nbsp;I would submit to you that&nbsp;having done this for 38 years&nbsp;with you know, \u202850 million people at this stage&nbsp;I can tell you that&nbsp;the science of achievement\u2026 There are a lot of people&nbsp;that are damn good and they still don\u2019t have an extraordinary life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They have an extraordinary life,&nbsp;<em>YOU see it as extraordinary<\/em>, but I get the phone call from the multi-billionaire&nbsp;who tells me wants to do this thing on his business&nbsp;but what you really find out is he\u2019s as miserable as hell&nbsp;and he\u2019s hoping somehow, I\u2019m going to rub off on him on that side too, and so I give him what he asked for:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The change in his business, but I also give him what he needs:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Which is the change INSIDE OF HIM.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>So the second skill&nbsp;is the ART OF FULFILLMENT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want an extraordinary life you can\u2019t just achieve&nbsp;you gotta be fulfilled.&nbsp;As simplistic as that sounds but is an art,&nbsp;it\u2019s not a science.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a science to making money, come on.&nbsp;Any age, any colour, any background, any gender,&nbsp;If you do these things you\u2019ll have an abundance of money.&nbsp;You do these things you\u2019re gonna have too much money, the end of the money\u2026 Financial stress, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone\u2019s biochemically different but you and I both know.&nbsp;There\u2019s fundamental rules, laws, there\u2019s a science of the body.&nbsp;You violate that science, you\u2019re gonna have disease, you\u2019re gonna have low energy.&nbsp;If you align with that, you\u2019re gonna have an abundance of energy.&nbsp;It\u2019s gonna effect everything in your life.&nbsp;It\u2019s a science.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fulfillment\u2019s not like that.&nbsp;Fulfillment is as different as&nbsp;we are human beings.&nbsp;You wanna know&nbsp;God or the Universe likes, look at the jungle, look at at the forest.&nbsp;It\u2019s diverse, right?&nbsp;So most people think&nbsp;\u201cWell I want to get that.\u201d Because they\u2019re modelling somebody else&nbsp;and that might work on how to achieve something&nbsp;it will&nbsp;<em>never work for what will fulfill you<\/em>&nbsp;how many people you know like you got what you thought you wanted and you weren\u2019t fulfilled&nbsp;and that\u2026 I always tell people:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>SUCCESS WITHOUT FULFILLMENT IS THE ULTIMATE FAILURE<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The ultimate failure!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Because if you go at something and you fail and you\u2019re an achiever.&nbsp;You don\u2019t fail, you\u2019re like \u201cI learned something,&nbsp;I\u2019ll just try something else.&nbsp;I\u2019m going to still get there.\u201d&nbsp;But when you succeed and you\u2019re not happy\u2026&nbsp;you\u2019re technically screwed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, a perfect example,&nbsp;I mentioned in the seminar you were there,&nbsp;because it hit me about a year and a month ago&nbsp;we lost what I consider a national treasure \u2013&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fearlessmotivation.com\/2017\/11\/08\/robin-williams-quotes\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Robin Williams<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I asked people, \u201cHow many of you love Robin Williams?\u201d&nbsp;Everyone raised their hand, all around the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He made people laugh, people were touched by him.&nbsp;So how good was he at the science of achievement?&nbsp;I mean, he wanted to be a great comedian and make the whole world laugh \u2013 he did, he wanted to have his own tv show \u2013 he did, he wanted a number one show \u2013 he did, he wanted to make movies \u2013 he did, he wanted to have an academy award for not being funny, dramatic and he did, he wanted a beautiful family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He achieved everything,&nbsp;<em>and he hung himself<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I know recently someone\u2019s saying, you know, he had dementia, he had drug abuse, he had alcohol abuse through most of his life&nbsp;because he made everybody happy but whom?&nbsp;Himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">That\u2019s the ultimate failure.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>So if I have no other message&nbsp;to offer your viewers&nbsp;then let me give it to them right now&nbsp;and I\u2019ll tell you what I believe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I believe our life\u2019s are controlled by one force: Decisions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I certainly believe in a force greater than myself&nbsp;call it God if you will, Grace, whatever you want to call it, the Universe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I also believe, it gives us choices and the decisions we make, control us much more than&nbsp;the conditions we meet.&nbsp;It\u2019s not the conditions, it\u2019s your decisions.&nbsp;Decisions what to believe,&nbsp;decision what to do,&nbsp;decisions what to GIVE.&nbsp;I said to people think about you know, look back 10 years&nbsp;ago, 5 years ago, 15 years ago&nbsp;and think of a decision you made, that if you would have made&nbsp;a different decision you would have a totally different life today, better or worse I don\u2019t know&nbsp;but totally different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The most important decision you could make&nbsp;above any on the face of the Earth&nbsp;is deciding that no matter&nbsp;what happens in your life.&nbsp;No matter what happens&nbsp;you\u2019re going to live in a beautiful state.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The decision&nbsp;to say I am not going to suffer, that if suffering arises \u2013 pain is one thing&nbsp;suffering is another.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Suffering is when you\u2019re like\u2026&nbsp;I\u2019ll give you an example:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A friend of mine is a very famous Indian industrialist, very famous, billionaire guy&nbsp;and he just recently took a sport in India&nbsp;that\u2019s been around for 2000 years&nbsp;that almost every village child plays&nbsp;and he turned it into a professional sport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one had ever made it a professional sport.&nbsp;2 years ago.&nbsp;He invested\u2026 I don\u2019t know\u2026 I\u2019m making the number up. 20 million dollars.&nbsp;In 2 years the sport is so successful in India,&nbsp;that 500 million people watch the finals,&nbsp;2 months ago.&nbsp;500 million people, right?&nbsp;That\u2019s half a billion\u2026&nbsp;and people are saying this is going to be as big as..&nbsp;for them cricket is the ultimate thing, right?&nbsp;Big as cricket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, his team valuation, I\u2019m making the number up&nbsp;I think its gone up to like half a billion dollars in 2 years&nbsp;from $25 million and his team is number two in the whole world. He\u2019s got these great players.&nbsp;So I\u2019m with him and he gets a phone call&nbsp;and he was just telling me about the great success&nbsp;how proud he is,&nbsp;people are so thrilled, that it\u2019s just become this movement in India&nbsp;that he created, he\u2019s so proud of it\u2026&nbsp;and the phone-call is from his management team telling him that&nbsp;one of his &nbsp;competitors has just offered 4 times as much money&nbsp;as he was offering to his top 3 athletes,&nbsp;who were the core of his whole team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And of course they all took it.&nbsp;He was so angry, he was like:&nbsp;I can\u2019t even believe this.&nbsp;These guys were working in shops,&nbsp;I brought them here I made them stars on national TV,&nbsp;and they have no loyalty\u2026&nbsp;And he\u2019s suffering, and the way you suffer is you focus on yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suffering comes when we obsess about ourselves,&nbsp;what we\u2019re getting or not getting,&nbsp;what we should have done,&nbsp;what others should have done for us,&nbsp;it\u2019s the me me me me me game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You, my dear friend, and I say this with no blowing smoke,&nbsp;your primary quality is a giver which is why you\u2019re prospering,&nbsp;you\u2019re not the me me me, you\u2019re like&nbsp;how do I give more, do more, share more, care more,&nbsp;how do we do a better job for our clients,&nbsp;how do we do a better job for our internal customers&nbsp;who work with us, our partners\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Your entire life is like this.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why you\u2019re prospering&nbsp;and you\u2019re not feeling suffering.&nbsp;But when you do suffer and I promise you do,&nbsp;correct me if I\u2019m wrong,&nbsp;it will be because you worry about something in the future\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How is this going to happen? Will this come together?&nbsp;Suffering could be worry, could be anger, could be frustration,&nbsp;it\u2019s anything that takes you out of the beautiful state&nbsp;and here\u2019s what don\u2019t people get:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>YOU CAN END SUFFERING.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stop focusing on yourself&nbsp;and focus on something you want to serve greater than yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your children, your wife, your mission, your life.&nbsp;You can get out of it in an instant, because the nature of&nbsp;the human mind is to constantly&nbsp;compare things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your brain is a 2 million year old device, it\u2019s not designed to make you happy.&nbsp;It\u2019s designed to make you survive and that\u2019s why it\u2019s always looking for what\u2019s wrong.&nbsp;It could be what\u2019s wrong with a sabre tooth tiger so I can protect myself. NOW people are worried about what people think of them,\u2028 or do they have enough money,\u2028 when two thirds of the planet lives off $2 a day\u2028 and you\u2019re making $38,000..&nbsp;you\u2019re rich!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The poorest of the poor in our country are considered rich.&nbsp;I\u2019m not saying that it should stay that way, but you can only build on success.&nbsp;So my goal is to have you consider something..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Life is short.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We don\u2019t know how short it\u2019s going to be, but if you only have a week to live.&nbsp;I bet you wouldn\u2019t allow yourself to suffer over little crap&nbsp;that makes you crazy normally.&nbsp;I think you would probably spend time with those you love.&nbsp;You would do what you love. \u2028You would take in the sunset.&nbsp;You\u2019d smell the air.&nbsp;You\u2019d take in everything in these final moments\u2028 that you possibly could.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So my thing is WHY WAIT?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why wait?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Why not just decide&nbsp;that if I start to suffer.&nbsp;I know the solution&nbsp;because suffering is me obsessing about me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might say \u201cIt\u2019s not me&nbsp;I\u2019m worried about my kids, because they\u2019re not doing well.&nbsp;No, you\u2019re worried that you hadn\u2019t done enough for your kids.&nbsp;It\u2019s about you still you know, you\u2019re worried about what was done&nbsp;or what you should have done or shouldn\u2019t have done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You end that in an instant by becoming aware of it&nbsp;and saying I\u2019ve made the most important decision of all&nbsp;I am going to live in a beautiful state.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s what\u2019s going to happen:&nbsp;Anybody watching, you may lose a family member.&nbsp;You probably will, somebody may get cancer.&nbsp;Your business may\u2026 the government&nbsp;might change the rules,&nbsp;they might change things radically&nbsp;and you can\u2019t even do anything about it. You might go bankrupt,&nbsp;you might get divorced.&nbsp;\u2028I\u2019m not saying anybody will, but no one knows what\u2019s going to&nbsp;really happen in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Life\u2019s full of uncertainty, but here\u2019s what you can know, you can decide no matter what happens, you\u2019re going to have a great time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If somebody like&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Viktor_Frankl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Viktor Frankl<\/a>,&nbsp;can be locked up in Auschwitz and come out of that and experience&nbsp;finding joy in the middle of Auschwitz,&nbsp;then human beings have a capacity they\u2019ve undersold themselves on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We think the outside world determines how we feel&nbsp;If people have to behave a certain way, if your husband, your wife, your kids&nbsp;or your co-workers or whoever,&nbsp;your boss&nbsp;has to behave a certain way for you to be happy&nbsp;and if they don\u2019t, you\u2019re unhappy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then you\u2019re always going to be unhappy&nbsp;because the more people are around you,&nbsp;the more they\u2019re going to change&nbsp;because they\u2019re human.&nbsp;If you have to be a certain way to be happy.&nbsp;You\u2019re gonna violate it too so \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My invitation is as great as it is to achieve, more important to enjoy.&nbsp;If you can enjoy every moment&nbsp;in that state,&nbsp;when you\u2019re feeling&nbsp;loving and playful&nbsp;and passionate&nbsp;and curious, in awe. 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